how do i configure it so that it will always load on the items that i want even after softreset??
for example i use lttwisted, and after resets it will only load the battery and system info. How do i configure it so that it will automatically load the weather, agenda instead of me selecting them manually
There's no easy way to do that. What gets displayed each time T+ loads up is specified by the skin file. You would need to learn how to modify the skin file in order to change what is initially displayed. You can use the skin reference file located in the General forum for help with understanding the commands, plus tutorials have been written on this site (I think) that explain the basics of skinning.
At the top of each skin there is a section that looks like this.
initregion,0,0
initregion,1,0
initregion,4,999
initregion,10,999
initregion,8,999
initregion,11,0
initregion,19,999
initregion,16,0
initregion,5,999
As you see some end in 0 and some in 999. 0 means it opens on start, and 999 menas closed. So find the region of the skin you want opened on start and change the region to a 0 and the ones not opening should have 999.